Thanksgiving: A Big, Fat, Filipino Eating Fest

A Filipino rendition of Thanksgiving. This isn’t even the full spread – there’s a whole turkey not pictured that’s on the other side of these dishes.


Thanksgiving is that time of year when we reflect on our lives and count our blessings… which we celebrate by gorging ourselves and engaging in some good ol’ communal gluttony.

Traditional American Thanksgiving fixins include turkey, gravy, mashed potatoes, stuffing, cranberry sauce, and usually some veggie dish that’s coated in some creamy substance that negates any health benefits said veggies might’ve contained.

Filipino-American Thanksgiving fixins (or the ones by my family, at least) include all of that, plus lechon, menudo, pancit, macaroni and cheese, oxtail soup, humba, potatoes au gratin, garlic fried chicken, rice, Filipino spaghetti, a whole lotta other dishes I could never identify but name but have definitely eaten frequently in my life, and not a whole lotta veggies.

How the heck do you tackle this beast of a Thanksgiving spread, you ask? Well, let me give you a brief overview of how it usually goes down in my family.

STEP 1: Oxtail soup. Always go for the oxtail. Lolo Joe makes this out-of-this-world soup made from oxtail, greens, and… actually, I have no idea what’s in it. But the broth and the fall-off-the-bone meat with some rice is definitely my go-to warm-up dish to get things going.

For those unfamiliar, oxtail soup can look a bit scary at first. But trust me: this fall-off-the-bone meat, soaked in a mild broth with greens and rice, is definitely not one dish to miss at the party.

STEP 2: Filipino food plate. Usually, at this point, I’m so pumped to find Filipino food that I go for those dishes first. (I don’t have Filipino food often, so these are the times when I get my fill.) This time, a huge slab of lechon ended up on my plate, so I worked around that by adding just a few other sides like rice, Filipino spaghetti*, lumpia, more oxtail, and some grapes (for color).

*Filipino spaghetti: pasta noodles with sweet, thick red sauce, hot dogs (yes, hot dogs), cheese, and I’m sure loads of sugar somewhere in there. So wrong, it’s right.

Lolo Joe loaded my plate with a massive slab of lechon meat and skin, so that kind of threw a curveball into my overall vision for my first plate, in terms of variety. So I kinda just added some rice, Filipino spaghetti, lumpia, and a little more oxtail and called it a day. Oh, and a few grapes for produce, since veggies aren’t really a thing with Filipino feasts.

STEP 3: Take a break from the savory and dip into the dessert station. I always need a little sweet as an intermission before I resume my usual entree plate program. A few bites of cassava cake, a taste of ube, a tad bit of flan, maybe some fruit, and then I’m good to get back to business.

Tiny sweet bites (Hans and Harry’s fruit strudel, ube, flan, cassava, grapes, and hopia) before I get into my next plate.

STEP 4: Back to the savory plates. Maybe a little more American this time. After my sweet fix, I get back to eating another plate. This time, it’s usually to get into traditional Thanksgiving dishes and maybe more veggies. I have no photo of this because today the lechon overshadowed most of my attempts to eat American, but typically this is the time when I go for the turkey, potatoes, mac and cheese, and maybe look for some veggies or fruit somewhere.

STEP 5: Repeat the process throughout the day. Eating is not a finite activity on these days; with the food on sternos throughout the day, it’s completely normal in this setting to keep eating and nibbling on different dishes. You want gluttony? Come check this scenario out. But this is how we spend our quality time together, and I wouldn’t want to have it any other way. Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ll head back to my food-drunk stupor now.

Happy Thanksgiving, y’all! Hope you were able to spend it well surrounded by loved ones.

Sightseeing FiDi Without Ever Stepping Outside

Brookfield Plaza


What I’m most impressed about from the completion of the World Trade Center Transportation Hub isn’t that it’s this awe-inspiring architectural wonder with a price tag of $4-billion, but that it essentially links the Financial District (FiDi) from one end to another, allowing pedestrians to walk through the width of Downtown Manhattan entirely indoors. That means that when it’s too cold, too hot, too wet, too frozen, too whatever outside—you can still sightsee (or in my case, just get to work) through Downtown without ever stepping outside. Continue reading “Sightseeing FiDi Without Ever Stepping Outside”

Ode to Butter (Again!)

source: kerrygold


I too love butter. I love butter so much that when I don’t see any in my fridge, I have a slight panic attack and start searching for it in all corners of the kitchen including the freezer, the bottom shelves, and irrational areas like the drawers where the knives are. I love butter so much I get butter withdrawals, start grunting like a cowboy and say things to myself like Butter, I swear. Okay fine, that’s not a thing, but I do base my grocery shopping on how much butter I have. I regularly open the fridge and take stock of the butter supply and think to myself something like: Okay I must have about three days of butter left, it’s almost time to go get food again. Continue reading “Ode to Butter (Again!)”

Remembering Kaikaya, or Things I Find in my Cup Holder


I’m going to let you in on a little secret: it’s possible that the Tiny Desk Writers procrastinate from time to time with our posts.

I’m not sure if this is obvious – nor do I think I want to know whether it’s obvious – but more often than not, our topics are inspired by A) spontaneity, B) late-night/early-morning desperation, C) fear of being the first one to miss his/her post day, or D) all of the above.

Now, I try to plan ahead and avoid this tendency, but somehow life always gets so busy, and planning just does not happen. Over the past couple of days, I was really feeling as though it was going to be one of those weeks when D) gets the best of me. I was, that is, until I hopped into my car this morning and looked in my cup holder.

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Things to Do on Cortelyou


chant with me: yummm … yummm 

Cortelyou Road is set right in the center of Ditmas Park, a neighborhood smack in the middle of Brooklyn. It is a half a mile long street, cutting from west to east, of a community consisting of many large Victorian houses built in the early 1900s. The trees in the surrounding area are tall, and from spring to fall, they give shade to all the houses in the area. There’s something of a new urbanism vibe in this neighborhood: it looks and feels like a rich suburb, yet it’s still part of and connected to the city. There are shops, cafes, bars, schools, community organizations, and railway transit. All of these are somehow densely packed in this suburban neighborhood, making it one of the most unique places in Brooklyn. Continue reading “Things to Do on Cortelyou”

Wandering Day with Priscilla

Searching for lanterns on a Saturday.


Dear Priscilla,

What a great idea to spend our Saturday together wandering around LA. It is always fun to check out new spots and bring friends to some of my favorite places in the area.

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Questions for the Silverlake Sunset Junction

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NOW ENTERING: Silverlake. Where Williamsburg and the Mission District meet their match. (I just accidentally typed Silverkale instead of Silverlake. Coincidence? I think… maybe. But maybe not.)


To the Silverlake Junction-ites:

I get it.

You’re cool. You’re authentic.

You’re certified USDA-organic, locally grown, craft, fair trade, and every other overused buzzword out there to describe a quintessentially hip haven for beautiful, au naturale young adults who look like they literally invented the hashtag #iwokeuplikethis before Queen Bey started using the phrase. (Sorry, BeyHive. No offense.)

But gosh, every time I set foot in your territory, I can’t help but have so many questions for you.

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